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Children raised by single parents can be just as happy and mentally healthy as children living with two biological parents. Children can be frightened by the strong emotions that go along with separation. This is pretty typical. Your child might also be in a bad mood and argue more often.
Below are some ideas for encouraging good behaviour and handling challenging behaviour. You can acknowledge these feelings without accepting inappropriate behaviour. Create clear rules Let your child know the family rules that apply when they're in your care. Agreeing on some rules at a family meeting can be a good first step. This gives everyone a chance to in, which makes it more likely that your child will follow the rules. Try to be consistent Children behave better when they have consistent rules.
Stick to your rules as much as possible and remind yourself to be calm, even if your child pushes back. Just work on not giving in next time. It can help to choose your battles. But if the marker washes off, does it really matter? If you find yourself being too hard — for example, shouting at your child or putting your child in their room for too long — try not to get too upset with yourself. Instead, reconnect with your child and reassure them, then think about how you could handle the situation better next time. If your family has experienced a separation or any other major family change, you might also feel reluctant to discipline your child, thinking that they've been through enough.
But dealing with behaviour issues as they happen avoids problems later. As a single parent, your positive attitude, strength and determination can give your child an example that lasts for life. You can show your child that you can keep going, even when things are difficult. Your child is bound to see you feeling sad, angry or upset in times of stress. Expressing your feelings also helps children learn to express their own. As a general rule, try to keep grown-up issues out of discussions with your child.
Some adult problems — like financial concerns, infidelity or conflict with a former partner — can make children feel very anxious. Use your own adult support networks, and talk things over with other adults. Single parents raising happy, healthy children Children raised by single parents can be just as happy and mentally healthy as children living with two biological parents.
They help you feel good too. Here are some ways you can nurture your relationship with your child: Make the most of everyday moments. Quality time with your child can happen anytime and anywhere. You can talk at dinner instead of watching TV. You can play word games on the bus, have a singalong in the car or tell funny stories at bedtime. Be interested. Get your child to show you how to play their favourite board game or app. Pay positive attention. Smile, laugh and hug your child as often as you can. Make one-on-one time.
If you have more than one child, try to make some regular time alone with each child. It could be a book before bed with younger children or a quiet game with an older child when the younger ones are asleep. Praise your child. Getting the parenting balance right Like all parents, you might sometimes struggle to get the parenting balance right. Handling your feelings and grown-up issues Your child is bound to see you feeling sad, angry or upset in times of stress.
Calling a parenting helpline can also help.Looking for another single parent
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